Dear Squishy,
I don’t remember how old I was the first time I got to go to a Cubs game. But I do remember even at that young age knowing it was a pretty big deal. To sit in Wrigley field with my father and watch the Cubs play baseball was and continues to be one of my favorite things in life.
It isn’t so much about who is playing to me, (although I did develop my first celebrity crush on Mark Grace at some point) and it certainly was never about them winning.
Side Note: You should know right now that you can’t be a Cubs fan if you are only in it for the win. They will break your heart every time… Just like they did my heart at game 7 2003, when they lost to the Marlins. I paid over $200 for those tickets, and actually cried in my seat at the end of the game…
I couldn’t name most of the players on the Cubs roster right now. Since moving from Chicago it is hard to keep up with the team. Save for the pre-season games at Cashman field that have become somewhat of a family tradition, and the odd afternoon game on WGN, I don’t get to see my cubbies very often. But my love for the team has never changed.
Growing up in Chicago, a love of the Cubs was instilled very early. From games with my father, to end of the school year field trips for those who helped participate as a hall monitor or paper grader, the moment the national anthem blasted from the speakers I was hooked.
Later on, I moved 2 blocks from Wrigley and used to go to the games at least every 2 weeks. If we didn’t go we would throw open our windows and listen to the roar of the stadium with the TV on mute.
The atmosphere was electric. There was no bad day a Cubs game couldn’t fix. To this day, finding a way to see them still makes my heart sing. The smell of beer, hotdogs, fresh peanuts, and summer breezes off Lake Michigan. The way you felt sitting in a crowd of thousands who share the same love for the team as you do.
The feeling of love for YOUR team, because while you may not own them, they will always be your team. The excitement of the win. The sorrow of the loss, but knowing even after many many MANY years of losses you will always come back to your team. That is the love of sports, the love of the game.
I don’t know if it will be the Cubs, or some other team. It may not even be baseball, but I hope you have these feelings one day. I hope you have a team you are passionate about, and a love for the game. I hope one day you look back and remember the times we took you to Cashman to see the Cubbies play once a year and know that your love of sports was passed down from us, as it was from our fathers.
Xoxxo,
Mama
*Dear Squishy is my version of (a less than) Wordless Wednesday where each week I write a letter to my son.
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Melissa says
I love this post! I hope Hayden grows to be passionate about the Cardinals as much as we are! 😉 It’s such a great tradition!
Lolo says
I know exactly what you mean. There is just something about going to a baseball game that is so special. Such a fun way to spend time with your family watching a team you love. I SO miss going to Pirate games!! Great pictures of your little Cubby fan!!
Miz says
here we are trying to foster a lifetime love of PLAYING SPORTS and uh of the STEELERS 🙂
such a sweet post.
Heidi @BananaBuzzbomb says
Adorable. Love it!
Jen says
A love of sports and a lifetime of memories!!! 🙂
Michele @ nycrunningmama says
OMG. I LOVE this post!! I agree with you 100%…having a love for a team is the most magical and memorable thing. I have been a die-hard Yankees fan since I was born…of course, falling for derek jeter when I was 13 years old, didn’t hurt =) I love going to Yankee stadium – it brings back so many amazing memories and I can’t wait until my son is old enough to enjoy – and understand – the sport!
Hanan says
I want a boy =/ My girls are super girly!
Joy Williams says
So cool that you are starting these memories with him earlier! He will appreciate them as an adult.
Donna says
We love our KY Wildcats basketball and TN Vols Football, but my son really just doesn’t get into “playing” sports. He’s tried softball, soccer, basketball, and track (although he enjoys track the best), but he is more academic. He loves acting. Takes a drama class once a week and has been in several plays at our local Children’s Theatre. I had a family member push me to encourage sports, which, like I said we did let him try everything (football is out of the question), to see if there was something he loved and was good at, but he just doesn’t care about it. Although he loves watching sports. 🙂
Becca @ Mama B says
Such a sweet post! And the pictures are adorable! My hubs is really hoping our children grow up to be passionate about sports!
Liz @ A Nut in a Nutshell says
You’re so right about the Cubbies. They do hurt our hearts, don’t they? But who would want to root for the Sox?
Tammy says
I haven’t taken my kids to a game.
Tina @ Best Body Fitness says
So cute! Love making little traditions and outings like that. What special memories!
KymberlyFunFit says
Memories that combine family and activity (sports, exercise, travel) are the BEST! Love the shot of Squishy walking away with his big foam finger.
Jennifer says
love this post. He looks adorable
Anne - Mommy Has to Work says
My son has always loved playing sports of anykind!
Jen says
This letter is adorable!
Vanessa says
i WISH MY KIDS WERE REALLY INTO SPORTS. THEY’RE MORE INTO GEEKY THINGS LIKE I AM.
Amy says
So cute! I love it!
Theresa says
So cute! It looks like you had a blast!
Maureen @ Wisconsin Mommy says
We love going to baseball games as aa family – we bring the grandparents too!
Marcie W. says
I love it! Another sports loving mama here, only my team is the Dallas Cowboys. Obsessed doesn’t even begin to describe it!!
hannah says
Thanks for your post. When my son was 7, he started playing little league hockey and it has remained a great past time of his. Even after high school and college, he still enjoys playing pick-up hockey whenever he can.
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